I'm pretty sure I did it a lot with the wedding planning. and I do it a lot with Josh I think, which is really quite unfair because I know he would give me anything that I want gladly. He serves me and puts me so far ahead of himself- whenever I let him in on what it is I want. and then, if I don't communicate my personal preferences or desires, after a while it makes me really self absorbed and worn out. When it's really all my fault!
Ugh, does that make any sense at all?
Fortunately I have an amazing husband who knows me very well and can draw things out of me. Sometimes I think he knows me and understands me better than I know myself, which is helpful... because when I don't know what exactly it is that I want or need, he does.
Anyway, I'm trying to figure all that out.